I actually believe that Moss got our decision right yesterday - within the current law and the chosen way of ruling offsides.
The chosen way is too rigid and pays too much respect to the technology by applying it to miniscule measures even on that 1st phase of our move yesterday. The technology can't be that accurate in measuring the point at which the ball is kicked and therefore frozen on screen. I trust the lines that the technology produces but not the precise point of the kick impact.
While I have been watching football the offside rules have changed. To be onside the attacker had to have three players between him and the goal and if he was level with the defender he was offside. Also the attacker simply had to be offside, not interfering with the ball, he could be on the opposite wing to be flagged offside.
Apparently when the game was invented any player in front of the ball could be offside!! Then it was changed to 3 men and eventually in 1925 to the current 2 men. ( I'm a bit disconcerted over that because I would have sworn It was like that when I was young, maybe a past life, sure to have been A Blade!!).
So, the current offside rule is way more generous to attackers in the modern game with great flexibilty in rules for not interfering with play, not in line of sight, level with the defender and being played on by an opposition touch.
Having accepted that those changes are generous to the attacking team, the introduction of VAR and the opportunity to take exact measures on a frozen frame of action can reinforce the rules and the big issue is where those lines are drawn.
Should the lines offer the VAR official some discretion depending what part and how much of the body is 'offside'. Personally I think Moss was right to disallow the goal and I reckon the offside rules are generous enough when related to the history of the offside laws,; allow 6 inches for trailing arms/ legs maybe, use the trunk of the body maybe.
Wilder took the decision rationally and with dignity. He is a big man in a man's game and his team dug deep to rescue the point despite the set-back. VAR dimmed our 'hope', as quoted in the thread title, for just a few minutes because the team has character.
Watching MOTD I have to say that Leicester were harder done by than us. How the VAR Official could pretend, yes 'pretend' that penalty call was not 'clear and obvious' beggars belief. It should be noted that such decisions are changed if the error is 'clear and obvious' whereas offside is an exact measure.