Boxer Blade
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Anybody any idea how ched is doing at Fleetwood ? Just out of interest like
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As I've said, the main issue for me has become all the associated views about his actions, rape and women that come with him. If there had been a more circumspect view of the whole thing, with people reflecting on rape, how women are viewed and treated, how modern lifestyles are pushing against laws designed to protect people's freedoms, I wouldn't have any issue at all - apart from the fact that I think the chances of him performing for us again are pretty minimal, that is.You may well be 'better than him', but I would have thought that anyone who is 'better' might include a bit of forgiveness in their own moral code.
vulnerable? This is what a poster was highlighting earlier on.
WOMEN LIKE SEX TOO
Women get drunk, men get drunk. Women perv on men. Men perv on women.
The girl is far from innocent in these aspects, shall we bring her to the town hall and stone her to death?
Women do like sex, and do like threesomes - it’s when they’re too pissed to know what’s going on it becomes a problem, which is why Ched went down. Not difficult.Agree that’s the issue that some men can’t bring themselves to believe, they think it’s a convenient excuse engineered by men.
I’ve honestly met some women that laugh at men’s old fashioned views that women are the fairer sex.
Speak to a cross section of women in an open minded atmosphere and there’s a surprisingly significant amount of young girls that are sexual predators, love the thought of numerous one night stands and some are even fair game for threesomes. Some men would call them slags ( I don’t) but if men have the same behaviour they are almost revered like a Don Juan character, double standards.
You can't paint it whatever way you want. I could describe the events in a way that made it sound like an erotic novel, but for the sake of any children reading I won't.This, BladeInIreland, is a load of tripe. From your early couple of posts I thought you had a better understanding of the case. She was vulnerable when Ched approached her, drunk, naked, lying prone, in the act of sexual activities with someone, not in her own surroundings. That was no normal lead-in to having sex and only one person can truly be said to have been in control of the situation - the person who had set it all up with his mate and who was not drunk.
It has got nothing to do with whether she likes having sex. Or her sexual tastes. The message is "if you say yes to one man, you must be up for it". That's wrong. Just because she was promiscuous, liked rough sex, was up for a one night stand, or anything else, doesn't alter what Evans is permitted to do. Unfortunately, the jury was allowed to consider exactly that, which I think was wrong.
We'll doesn't that just bring us back to the grey area of what is too pissed. Seemingly by the evidence she wasn't passed out and dragged into a room. So grey in fact it was overturned.Women do like sex, and do like threesomes - it’s when they’re too pissed to know what’s going on it becomes a problem, which is why Ched went down. Not difficult.
This, BladeInIreland, is a load of tripe. From your early couple of posts I thought you had a better understanding of the case. She was vulnerable when Ched approached her, drunk, naked, lying prone, in the act of sexual activities with someone, not in her own surroundings. That was no normal lead-in to having sex and only one person can truly be said to have been in control of the situation - the person who had set it all up with his mate and who was not drunk.
It has got nothing to do with whether she likes having sex. Or her sexual tastes. The message is "if you say yes to one man, you must be up for it". That's wrong. Just because she was promiscuous, liked rough sex, was up for a one night stand, or anything else, doesn't alter what Evans is permitted to do. Unfortunately, the jury was allowed to consider exactly that, which I think was wrong.
We'll be back to suggesting that if a woman has an orgasm during a rape she must have enjoyed it, so it isn't rape.
Good grief, you didn't follow the case at all, did you? I haven't "painted" it in any way at all. That is EXACTLY how it happened. He got a text from his mate "I've got a bird", turned a taxi around and headed to the hotel room they'd pre-booked for the event. He blagged his way into the room and had a go on her without saying a word to her, then sneaked out of the fire escape so no one would see him. That is not normal - I wasn't refering to sex in a hotel, but Evan's preditory actions. It's not about whether she "felt vulnerable", it's whether she was in a vulnerable state. Lying naked on a bed, drunk, in someone else's hotel room is about as clear a definition of vulnerable as you can get. Her history is not relevant to whether Evans raped her or not. Do you realise that you can rape a prostitute?You can't paint it whatever way you want. I could describe the events in a way that made it sound like an erotic novel, but for the sake of any children reading I won't.
See you used a dangerous word in there, normal. It's not a word that can be used when talking about sexual activities. Sex in hotel rooms is actually alot more of a standard thing then you would think. Most people that age don't have a house to go back to. You say her history shouldn't be a factor but highlight she's in a vulnerable state out of her own surroundings. But if her history is regularly bringing men to a hotel room whilst drunk or on drugs she probably didn't feel as vulnerable as you make out.
No. It is currently being argued that because women like sex, Evans is innocent. Can you imagine if it emerged she's orgasmed whilst Evans was doing her?Out of a genuine interest, has this been discussed and suggested by posters in the past?
Back to the football, I don't think he is good enough, but if Chris does (not McCabe) he needs to not just be good enough, he needs to be better than anything else we have to be worth the hassle..
I'm confused, was this orgasm during his 1st or 2nd goal yesterday ?No. It is currently being argued that because women like sex, Evans is innocent. Can you imagine if it emerged she's orgasmed whilst Evans was doing her?
No. It is currently being argued that because women like sex, Evans is innocent. Can you imagine if it emerged she's orgasmed whilst Evans was doing her?
Exactly. Sooo many people don't get this.Fair point, that’s the reason whey the other guy was innocent because although he didn’t have express permission to have sex, the build up could lead him to believe that he did have permission. He chatted her up, bought her a pizza and she willingly went into a taxi with him, this is what happens 1000’s of times every weekend.
Ched just turned up invited by his friend not the girl. So it looks like he was an opportunist (a predetor). In Cheds mind she was drunk but not too drunk and her actions gave him permission.
I really believe that the CPS were at fault here, it was always going to be a minefield with no witness to a crime.
Also when the effects of alcohol and sexual moralistic behaviour is a major factor it complicates it even more.
The girl never ever complained and could have carried on her life without being involved in the thought that she might have been raped. At least she now knows rape didn’t take place and her sub concious was probably agreeable.
Can you imagine if it emerged she's orgasmed whilst Evans was doing her?
Again , there's very little normal involved in sexual activity. Most cases of a threesome iv heard of from nights out involve a mate tagging in a mate. Normally with a girl they believe "fancy free" shall we say in the hope she would agree. It's not as common for said girl to walk up to a group and say who's first. These scenarios are not unheard of. As well as most people going along with the vibe not necessarily a verbal contract for consent. Obviously just because a woman sleeps around a bit doesn't mean she can't be a victim. But when your looking for usual patterns between the suspected crime and every other weekend it's useful. Because seemingly she wasn't so sure herself.Good grief, you didn't follow the case at all, did you? I haven't "painted" it in any way at all. That is EXACTLY how it happened. He got a text from his mate "I've got a bird", turned a taxi around and headed to the hotel room they'd pre-booked for the event. He blagged his way into the room and had a go on her without saying a word to her, then sneaked out of the fire escape so no one would see him. That is not normal - I wasn't refering to sex in a hotel, but Evan's preditory actions. It's not about whether she "felt vulnerable", it's whether she was in a vulnerable state. Lying naked on a bed, drunk, in someone else's hotel room is about as clear a definition of vulnerable as you can get. Her history is not relevant to whether Evans raped her or not. Do you realise that you can rape a prostitute?
Good grief, you didn't follow the case at all, did you? I haven't "painted" it in any way at all. That is EXACTLY how it happened. He got a text from his mate "I've got a bird", turned a taxi around and headed to the hotel room they'd pre-booked for the event. He blagged his way into the room and had a go on her without saying a word to her, then sneaked out of the fire escape so no one would see him. That is not normal - I wasn't refering to sex in a hotel, but Evan's preditory actions. It's not about whether she "felt vulnerable", it's whether she was in a vulnerable state. Lying naked on a bed, drunk, in someone else's hotel room is about as clear a definition of vulnerable as you can get. Her history is not relevant to whether Evans raped her or not. Do you realise that you can rape a prostitute?
You're quite right, she allegedly told him to go down on her. I have no desire to edit the facts. For me the case revolves around what he did, not what she did, since a) she was too drunk to remember (and has no reason to invent that) and b) anything she did do or say is being told by the two accused.I know I shouldn't get involved but you are being disingenuous about the reported events. Evans testimony stated that she did respond verbally and requested he did something and then said something else. What she allegedly said and allegedly said to a second case witness during sex was one of the points as to why her previous history was allowed to be put to the court. Rightly or wrongly.
If debate has now reached levels where the reported facts are effectively being edited and two or more people have different moral attitudes then it's going nowhere. It's now getting ugly and let's be honest, it's been done to death with hardly anyone changing their views.
Can someone tell me what the additional evidence was that was used in Cheds appeal that led to the appeal court overruling the original decision ?
Wasn't it basically new witness statements including part of her previous sexual history?
What’s different from the media version to what happened?only the people involved including the night porter listening at the door know the facts. Or those who attended the trial.
So everyone on here is basing their judgements on the media version of events and cherry picking 'facts' to suit their own viewpoint.
But then that is what the internet is for 'information' technology, it's called progress.
Again , there's very little normal involved in sexual activity. Most cases of a threesome iv heard of from nights out involve a mate tagging in a mate. Normally with a girl they believe "fancy free" shall we say in the hope she would agree. It's not as common for said girl to walk up to a group and say who's first. These scenarios are not unheard of. As well as most people going along with the vibe not necessarily a verbal contract for consent. Obviously just because a woman sleeps around a bit doesn't mean she can't be a victim. But when your looking for usual patterns between the suspected crime and every other weekend it's useful. Because seemingly she wasn't so sure herself.
A side question since you have such a good understanding of the case.
Why was the verdict overturned?
What evidence was enough to clear him?
What’s different from the media version to what happened?
But that is purely my opinion of how it went in the jury room
To how the jury arrived at its not guilty verdict? Yes, of course. Same as everyone else.A guess then.
So there’s no difference then.LOL.
McCabe and the prince have £6 million each in their pockets from the sale of Brooks.
Wasn't it basically new witness statements including part of her previous sexual history?
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