I think people are being a bit too harsh on both of them,
RS man is too serious and his questions need some thinking about. It always feels like he is trying to lead Chris somewhere.
I don't think Chris was unpleasant in anyway and was probably as wound up as me at being told Derby were the better team in the 1st half. They weren't and we had the better chances.
MM's opening questions seemed to infer that we were rubbish in the first half and not deserving of the lead. He used the phrase, "never saw it coming" to describe the result based on the first half performance. This, around here at any rate, means that something looked extremely unlikely to happen. Given that we'd played well in the first half, admittedly not to our best, but we'd played well and so had Derby. There was very little, bar the goal, to separate us. So, to suggest that we never saw it coming, is to say that we looked incapable of it based on the first half performance - and that, I think, stuck in Wilder's craw from the start of the interview. It would have done me too, for the same reason.
Wilder was definitely frosty with him in response.
He also posted this on Twitter at half-time:
"HT. Sheffield United 1-0 Derby County. How many times have the Blades been the better side only to see the points slip away? It might be the opposite today. Billy Sharp’s 13th of the season against the run of play, but few here care".
It's clear from this that he felt Derby were far the better team in the first half. I think that's harsh. I really felt it was pretty even with United having the most chances. Anyhow...
I have some tips for MM, should he care to read this forum. BTW - I am not an experienced radio presenter.
The guy lacks empathy above all. At least, that's how it comes across. He probably doesn't mean it at all. But the example above is one where he made a poor choice of phrase that got the interview off on the wrong foot. A better opening question would have been...
"Chris, a very closely contested first half, with Blades just edging ahead at the break with a superbly taken goal by Billy Sharp - what was your take on the first half performance?"
Now, look what I just did there. I started the question with his name, (that's personalising it) I gave my view on how I saw the first half, I credited a player for a superb goal, and then I asked the manager for his opinion on the first half.
When I say that MM lacks empathy let me highlight something that he regularly
doesn't do. He doesn't give his own opinion. He just throws questions back in response to just about anything.
If I phoned him up and said "Good evening" I'd be half expecting him to turn around and say, "When you say Good Evening, what is it that makes this evening particularly good in your opinion?"
That's his problem. Fans phone up and say something - and he turns it immediately into a question and throws it back at them. "What would you like to see David?" "Why does that matter Brian?" "How would you fix that, Andy?".
It's o.k. asking questions, but you know sometimes, it's good to show a bit of yourself and say what you think as well. Giddings, Staton, and Oxley, all show a bit of themselves and their thoughts and opinions on topics - but this guy doesn't. It's like throwing a ball at a wall - it just comes bouncing straight back at you.
That's why he comes across as low on empathy and it gets folks backs up. It's easy enough for him to change btw - but he should know better if he's doing that line of work professionally. Oh and btw...someone on here has said he's "relatively inexperienced". He's not. He's got sufficient experience in local Radio to know better. Simple as.