Just out of interest, how do you feel about your new generation of fans who expect you to win the League and at least one other trophy every year as if it was always the way?
I don't want to derail the thread. However, you've asked so I'll do you the courtesy of an answer.
I'd argue that it's not expectations that are a problem. Those are engendered by the amounts of money available to the club and the players it enables us to field, and I don't personally believe that thinking we might well win stuff in our current position is particularly unreasonable. What I dislike are people who seem to think that their club is somehow entitled to have success and who act like a smacked arse if it doesn't. I see quite a lot of Man City fans like that on social media, and they aren't exclusively new fans, either. But it seems to me that most clubs have plenty of knobhead fans on social media, which is a platform on which those who shout loudest get the attention and idiots tend to shout loudest, so I think it can give a misleading impression of any club's fans.
However, the kind of success we've had (and, yes, bought) does attract self-entitled smacked arses and it also turns some of the existing fans into self-entitled smacked arses as well so I don't deny that we have large numbers of them. Just how prevalent that type is among the fanbase as a whole is hard for me to judge, because I live abroad now and visit Manchester rarely.
I'd say the fellow fans among my mates who I keep in touch with and who, like me, are in their early fifties tend to be fairly philosophical about things. We accept that we basically won the lottery in terms of the money that's come into our club. We lament some of the changes in the club and the way it operates that mean we, as fans, feel more dissociated from it than we used to. Nonetheless, after years of us being shit, we enjoy not being shit any longer. We like watching players like Yaya Toure, David Silva and Sergio Aguero every week, and are happy to be managed by Pep Guardiola (though we recognise that, once he's left, we'll probably never have anyone quite that good again). We know that these things are cyclical so the success won't last forever. And when it stops, we'll still be supporting them, even if they slip to the Conference North.
I'm in the third generation of Man City fans in my family. Both of my parents had fathers and brothers who were supporters and took me to Maine Road when my dad worked on Saturdays, as he often did. In the fourth generation, there's only my nephew, who's currently 12, and he's never known anything but regular trophies and signings for huge money. I regard it as a duty to teach him about the past and to keep him grounded, as it would be a great pity if that was lost from the fanbase.
Also, my Dad always said it was the Munich aircrash, and the sympathy that they got afterwards that propelled them above City. Along with Busby, Best, Law and Charlton, that was the roll they climbed on and never looked back from really.
And, until the mid 60s, when Liverpool FC got associated with The Beatles, Everton were the most successful club on Merseyside, both on the pitch and with higher attendances.....
Yes, Munich definitely did generate a wave of sympathy for them. It was winning the European Cup in 1968 that really forged them a position as the most glamorous and best-supported team in the country, though. They topped the attendance charts in 1967/8 - the fifth time they'd ever done so. Of those, three had come in seasons when they'd been league champions, one was the season in which the Munich crash happened, and in 1967/8 they lost the title at the end but had been top nearly all season. In 1968/9, for the first time they had a fairly mediocre season while being the best-supported team, and they've only ever ceded that position in a handful of seasons since.
As for Merseyside, Everton under Harry Catterick managed to compete on a fairly equal footing with Shankly's Liverpool through the sixties and won the title in 1970. Since then, apart from that brief purple patch under Howard Kendall in the eighties, they really haven't got close to their neighbours in terms of success. They remain well supported but not close to the same level as the other lot.
I didn’t know that about City and United groundsharing.
With regard to your point about one Sheffield club becoming dominant, a Wednesday mate of mine pointed out that it’s a pattern with us that when one club does well (relatively speaking!) the other one goes into a nose dive. In the 47 years I have been watching, this has nearly always been the case. Could argue that early 90s with both in top flight for 4 seasons together we were both doing well but they were clearly a top side and we were perennial relegation battlers. Odd season we have been rubbish together, but even then, mostly different levels of rubbish, like last season.
To some degree, this has always been the same in Manchester. I suppose even now Man City are having more success than ever before, and Man United's standards have dropped.
Where Sheffield seems a bit different, at least to me looking from outside, is that the gap between the two clubs in terms of size is a lot narrower. Man City aren't close to being as big a club as Man United, and it would probably take decades of both continuing in their current vein for that to change. It would take a similar protracted turnaround on Merseyside for the balance to change there. As for Sheffield, I know that Wednesday like to bang on about what a massive club they are and see themselves as the big fish in the city, but looking at the historical league positions and attendance records, the difference isn't anything like as wide as you'd think just from listening to them.
If the Blades could get back up and consolidate in the Premier League, you'd collar a large majority of the support in the city from a whole generation of fans and would completely change the dynamic between the clubs. I'd love to see it - but this is a really interesting and informative thread for me in terms of understanding why it hasn't happened.