The biggest problem for you was last season. You massively over reached and that leads to heightened ambitions and expectations from more than anyone, the fans. A club with resources like Sheff u then struggle to keep with those demands. Its not a criticism because its the natural progression from doing well. However, you all went into this season believing (I may be wrong) that you would be able to follow-up from last season whie many neutral observers thought you would struggle. not this poorly, though.
If you change manager now would it be markedly different? With the playing staff that you have I don't think so. By that I don't mean the amount of points that you have but more the depth in talent in your squad. You were a Championship club that went on an amazing run last season but at some point those players would be found out. Sames an age ago now but in a sliding doors moment, how different would things have been if that opening day penalty had have gone in and you hung on to win 1-0?
I don't watch you so am unable to comment too much on Wilder but if you do go down (and I still think its a big 'if') as a couple of wins brings confidence back, but if you'd have finished 17th last season you'd probably be all, 'in this together' and wanting to be fighting as a club - fans and club together - to dig your way out of this. And when fans are back I think that's what you'll be able to do - fight for what you've earned.
It's poor, yes, and yesterday's result shows that in part the players are starting to not believe anymore, and luckily January is coming and the board have to decide to stick or twist. You need a forward desperately as you are easy to predict up front and are lacking real quality. Pay Bournemouth for King (if he's not injured), or get Gayle from newcastle - someone with pace and can give you an option. maybe vydra from Burnley and Snodgrass from West Ham on a short-term deal. They may not be the players that jump out at you but they could be the players that make a difference.