All you need to understand is that there's a middle ground it's called reality. If you ignore the "Europe in 5 years" & "we're doomed and going down" posts depending on whether we win or lose there are and always will be issues at the club.
Recognising that is not being negative, it's reality.
What you need to realise is that last year at this time Adkins was the best thing since sliced bread in your view, then one day he became terrible. Most people saw he wasn't great all season, it doesn't mean they are doomsayers and you are sweetness and light. It's different opinions.
Your relentless hammering of the same message into anyone who shows a slight concern is boring and the fact you don't see that is delusional. Admit there are issues, discuss them and hope we turn it around, no one wants us to be this shit but they get irritated that we are and no one in a position to do something about it seems capable of doing so.
Most people go to work all week and have football as a release, you live in the sun with more than your fair share of Vitamin D and probably don't need football as a release. Accept that your view isn't always right and you may find conflict happens much less on here.