I loved watching him and felt no animosity towards him when he left.
The other way to look at the lead up to his move is that he genuinely struggled to decide between staying with us, and moving to his boyhood club, playing in the champions league - and probably lots of associated personal family pressure pulling him to move. Despite all the pressure to go, it seems he was still torn about whether to stay. I don’t see it as stringing us along, or being unprofessional - just struggling to decide what to do.
Maybe there were other things going on - maybe the chairman told him he was planning to start the season in the premier league with a 52 year old Ollie Norwood in the middle, either Osula or Hackford up front, a few new names (Larouci, Traore, Trusty, …), and in the second half of the season maybe a cunning plan to replace Wes with either a scarecrow or this guy we’ve got our eye on playing on the continent right now (sadly we didn’t go for the scarecrow). Perhaps somebody with incredible prophetic insight suggested ‘I could be wrong here, but I just get a weird feeling that club is not going to do very well this season’.
Of course I have absolutely no real idea what was being said, how anyone felt, what was offered, what people around him said, what he wanted, what the owner did or didn’t do. I don’t think many (any?) of us have, and so most of our reactions are based on stuff we’ve conjured up in our own heads based on the very limited evidence.
My response therefore would fall back to the facts: I loved watching him; he’s a fantastic player; he went to work for somebody else and we got a substantial amount of money for him. I would applaud him in any and every game I saw him in. Briefly. And then - if he was playing against us - hope we battered whoever he was playing for.
If he’d refused to play to force a move, or gone through the motions until his contract was up to earn himself a shed load more money by going on a free - then I would not feel the same.