In fairness to the Barnsley fan, he didn't really say anything out of term and he did wish us good luck. Whether people choose to accept that grace or not is down to the person really, whether they find it condescending or not. I thought his first post was balanced and unfortunately, many of the responses do make us look like 'bitter blades'. I'm not going to be a hypocrite, I don't like Barnsley FC but I'm not going to throw an honest gesture back in someone's face.
One more thing to add, most places see the next town/village/city nearby to be inbred. I find it quite amusing the Dingle-Dee Dar banter. Don't get why people take it that seriously. It's just a joke. Most people I've met from Barnsley are decent people.