Without a doubt, CW is the best I've had the privilege of watching, cheering on, supporting. When l really started paying attention to United, we were Basset's United. It was looking, for a generation, that that was going to be the greatest period. That was until Wilder took the helm. He gave us, me, the greatest journey. In my mind, he'll be interwoven with the most magnificent period I've had being a Blade. Nothing will ever change that.
Since the news started bubbling up last Thursday, I’ve been trying to write something about Wilder, but I’ve struggled. Not because I don’t have thoughts — I’ve got loads — but because they all seem to contradict each other.
I’m proud of him. Genuinely. He’s done it again. Dragged us out of a mess. Rebuilt. Stabilised. It’s remarkable how often that gets glossed over. He is Sheffield United in human form. More than Warnock. More than Bassett even. It’s not just what he’s achieved — it’s what he represents.
And maybe that’s the problem.
Wilder was perfect for a broken club with an absent owner. At a time when the club needed one person to hold all the threads, fingers in every pie. But the world’s moved on. Football has. COH (as much as we can guess) seems to be trying to. And I don’t know if CW can — or should — follow it. His personal history and philosophy are what made him so perfect for the job.
Yes, he’s more pragmatic now — more likely to shut up shop once we’re ahead. But the spark, the daring, the momentum of 2019/20 — that feels like a different man. One who, maybe, is a bit worn down by the business. He seems to have lost a little bit of love for it all. Not United, football.
We’re a stable club now. The most stable I remember us every being. Financially stronger. Squad arguably better than ever. But the team last season… that team wasn't. And what’s worrying is that I’m not sure Wilder’s version of "progress" matches the realities of a modern Championship club aiming for the Premier League. Especially one who's owners are trying to modernise its structure, top to bottom.
What's apparent from a lot of the rhetoric today is that there’s a kind of cult around him — I feel it within me. He means something to me, to us. Maybe not as universally this time, but he did. To us all. More than anyone before. But that meaning, that emotion, it's dangerous. It's in danger of overshadowed the real thing we all love. United. The man himself has said it in numerous occasions, the club will be here long after we're all gone. It was here before Wilder, and it'll outlive him.
I think that what l need to do, what we all need to do, Wilder included, is recognise that his strengths got us here, but they might also be standing in the way. The club needs to move beyond him, somehow.
He’ll always be one of us. But that can’t be the reason he stays in the job.