You can't be dominating from the off. You've got to start off by just nibbling around the edges. Let her take the lead and let her get on top if she wants to. Let her think she's in control but don't be a pushover. Keep it fairly even early on, toy with her and let her toy with you. Try not to penetrate too deeply, too early. Just gently play around the edge of her box. Ignore any whispered moaning you might hear and whispered cries of 'Gerrit in box' and just gently push forward, not too far, before retreating back again and let her come to you again. Repeat this for a short period and she'll eventually lay back and be wide open, inviting you to thrust deeper and harder. Don't be put off by her cries as you stick it in for the first time. It's exactly what she expects of you. But don't get ahead of yourself. You don't want to popping another in so soon and be left wanting at the end. It's a game of patience. Make her wait for the rapier thrust. Tease her with a couple of near misses. By this time she'll be desperate and she'll come at you with everything. But don't succumb. Invite her on but don't relinquish control. Let her think she might be calling the shots but always keep on top. And then, at the very last moment, push hard and keep driving on, get yourself deep inside her box and when the moment arrives, fire it home and take the glory.
And that Paul, is how you beat Burton in a pre-season friendly.