Agreed and I suspect this sums up how a lot might feel.
I have said on another thread that I honestly couldn't give a fuck about the PL. It's far too sterile and every conceivable odd seems to be stacked against you from minute one. VAR also seems to have made matters worse. It's quite incredible what we did in the first season up there under Wilder, all things considered.
But I also accept that getting there a couple of times per decade is a necessary evil now, if we want to be a force in this league, where the football is more competitive and enjoyable. Even if we come straight back down, it has to be worth the pain, simply for the financial boost and the exposure for the club.
Of course there is also the very distinct possibility that we get there this time, with a new owner who has the means to truly transform us and turn us into a PL regular and maybe push for better things than simply avoiding relegation. If that happens, I wouldn't complain either.