What would make you stop

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A concubine who could only entertain me at 3pm-5pm saturdays , Tuesday 8pm-10pm or on Holy Days of Obligation. Always go Sunday though, so no nothing could stop me.

Although if they ever introduced those plastic flapper things for fans I’d probably not go for fear of dying of embarrassement
 



I'm 33 years old and was a season ticket holder from about age 9 to age 28.

Since a child I was totally hooked, but then my dad passed away when I was 23 and some of the match day obsession sort of died away, but I carried on going with a group of my dads friends.

So at age 28, I think it was when Weir was in charge, I decided that I'd had enough, the football was terrible, we were languishing (ish) in league 1 and I was fed up of spending so much on going to BDTBL as I was only on a trainee's salary at the time. I think it was the poor football that really finished me off though.

The Wilder Era seems to have got me going again, the football is great to watch most of the time, the team shows passion and I think as Blades, it's what we expect as a minimum. The Club feels like it did when I was hooked in my teens.

I live in the Middle East now and watch everything I can on ifollow (at least when its not a middle of the night kick off) but to be honest, I now feel a bit of a "Glory Hunter" if you can call it that, for abandoning when it got a bit mucky! (albeit I did see some utter tripe through the Heath, Robson, Blackwell and Adams era's

So my question is, would you follow the Blades through thick or thin, or would you have a limit that made you quit like I did? Would you ever walk away?

I’m 33 years old, live in the ME and stopped having a season ticket at 27/28 due to kids. Are you me?
 
Moving from Bramall Lane I think would be the only thing. Just wouldn't feel like the same club
 
Prices.

Moving away from BDTBL
Changing the red and white stripes


And the big one, that there merger thing.
 
Lane Part timer between 1979 and 1988 but I thought I was going to stop after hearing (after a football tournament) in Manchester that we had lost to Walsall in 1981. Thought the same after relegation in 1988
 
I worked on Saturdays for about 10 years and could only attend occasionally and midweek games and after that I was out of the habit, then the usual marriage, kids etc. Nearly 30 years later I got a season ticket again and I can't imagine not having one now.
 
Stopped doing away games under the Hoofy twat. Jacked my season ticket the summer we didn't sack him (only to lose my seat and then sack him after 3 games). Still went but not every game as prior to that. Now got my mojo, my ST and my seat back so all good.
Should that bollockless bastard ever be employed by the club again then I could easily return to the ranks of NRS.
 
A lot of points made that I have to agree with...It would take a lot for me to stop being a Blade. Even living 200 miles away, i'm still there pretty much every Saturday. Moving to Lincoln soon, so the Tuesdays are coming back to me too.

I've lost a couple of very good friends that have been regulars for a lot longer than I have, but i felt i needed to keep going with the same group of mates to ensure that legacies and memories lived on.

What WOULD stop me going?

Merger with them lot.
Loss of identity i.e change of strip/colours, name and how we conduct ourselves.

I could however deal with a move from Bramall Lane - But only if we were at max capacity and couldn't develop Bramall Lane any further, i still wouldn't accept any of these horrible bowl style stadiums though.

Oh...and maybe death would stop me going...But my spirit will still be there!
 
Life has got in the way over the years - kids, work, moving around the country etc. but I've never completely given up I've always got to some matches. Since retiring I've had my season ticket despite living in the South Midlands and I go to a fair number of away matches as well, it's great that when I've had the time to see us more we've been playing well.
 
I ‘walked away’ for the last two home games of Adkin’s regime. That was just about as low as I’ve got albeit the likes of Adams and Heath pushing him close.

Fortunately it wasn’t a long walk and Sir Chris dragged me straight back. :)
 
Interesting thread

Ken Jnr (who's mid 20s) was telling me on Tuesday night that the second half was possibly one of the most boring he had witnessed - even considering Adkins and Weir.
Premise being that we just could not effect the game. It wasn't a contest.
He said at half time that he did not have any clarity on what he would do to change things about if he were Wilder. There just wasn't any options to call upon. He then said that the best thing to do would be for Wilder to let Brooks and Ched get some game time to help get some match fitness in them. Lo and behold as the second half was about to begin (this was before Brooks was warming up without his tracky on) the change happened and Ched joined the fray 20 mins later.

It's the contest that matters
Chasing shadows is boring.
Goalmouth action (I've banged on about this for years vs possession stats) is what's exciting - at both ends.
Being totally dominant against another team is boring (save for Weeds and Wendy ;) )
Taking tackling out of the game (Lee Evans tackle was a perfect example - brilliantly timed) is a big issue for me.
And as Small Mendonca has already stated - if we have a money bags team of international players from overseas, then what am I identifying with?
I certainly didn't start in the mid 70s as a glory hunter.
It's the hope that we can win something on merit that keeps you energised.
It shouldn't be a procession.
It has to mean something.
I've lived away from Sheffield for so long it's one of the key things that binds me to my roots and my past.
If the core identity of that is wiped away at any stage then I'd be thinking twice.

Crickey - are we in an age where Mester Wilder the last vestige of truth?
 
You have started an interesting thread, niktheblade , but if you are looking for guidance, I think you have to follow your own instincts. Obviously there are major practical factors which differ from person to person (money, where you live, family, etc.), but in the end you decide how much of yourself you invest in a football club. The positives of supporting the Blades over many years for me have been a shared interest with kids, and now grandkids, some great days which feel all the better for having suffered the rubbish, and a sense of being totally absorbed regularly in something which ultimately you know is not as important as the things you would otherwise worry about. And it gives you endless topics for conversations, 'discussions', jokes, anecdotes, etc., as well as memories of great moments from Hagan, Hodgy, TC, right through to Brooks nutmegging Hunt in S6.
 



Money is the main one. Not just the ticket price either. I hate the premier league in the state it is in from all the money in it. Ironically, the only reason I want us to get promoted this year is because I have a bet on it. Otherwise I would be happy if we never reach the premier league again. I feel old saying this but the professional game is nothing like it was when I was growing up.
 
As a season ticket holder, if for some reason I couldn't make the match and I wasn't counted in the attendance, I'm afraid that would be it for me.
 
Death would be the only thing to stop me. My spirit will always be there though!!. I've moved around the country over the last 20 years of my married life but I've always tried to get to a game whenever possible. It annoyed me so much to miss 10 weeks of this season after my neurosurgery. I'm so happy to be back now!!. BLADES FOR LIFE. UTB
 
If they changed the strip to blue and white stripes, moved to Hillsborough and changed their name to Sheffield Wednesday, I would stop going. Other than that, if there is a "Sheffield United", I will go, health permitting.
 
no other team has or ever could stir the emotions like United do. I could only fall out with it if I fell out with the game completely.
 
I went to the Lane very infrequently for the 14 years I was playing football on Saturday afternoons but rarely miss a match now.

My lad is 14 and plays football on Sunday mornings, but he's approaching the age where he's going to be playing on Saturday afternoons.

Then my loyalties will be tested :eek:
 
Kids changed it for me. I have in laws who are ardent pigs and have dragged their kids to football since they were tiny, they arrange holidays around football and basically live their lives to go and watch the pigs. The kids are pre teen and early teens and they don’t like going to the football, in my opinion because it’s been forced down their throat. We live in the Middle East and I’m safe in the knowledge that the in laws won’t come and visit us because it will get in the way of football. It’s upsetting for my wife as she has had this shit all her life.

As a result I’ve been determined that I won’t push football on my kids and the day they ask me to go to the Lane I’ll take them (and have both last summer and winter), if they want a season ticket then we’ll get one but I put family time ahead of football in all situations. This is my view and may not be shared by others and I don’t see myself any less of a fan for being like this.

In my late teens and early 20’s I couldn’t see past watching the Blades and having a few beers, then I grew up. My in laws have yet to do this and are missing out on a lot. Even if they were Blades I’d think they were wrong in what they were doing. The fact that they are delusional grunters makes it worse.
 



Had an ST since 1983.
Apart from one season.I was that disgusted when DB got the sack that I refused to buy one.....i then went to every home game that season anyway.
Under people like Adkins & Robson I went to only a handful of away games but still never missed a home game.Just couldn't stay away however bad we were.
 

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