I totally agree with you there mate. I've been critical of folks who leave the game early. At the Man U match the other week, several folks sat on our row left when Man U went 3-2 up. I cannot understand their mentality - I really can't. 10 minutes plus added time remaining - and they are off! All because the other team took the lead. The Blades had been magnificent all night up until that last 10 minutes when Man U got 3 back - but that was it - for them..."done". Like little children who don't want to play anymore when things aren't going their way. I'm just glad it wasn't their "casey" we were playing with, or I'm sure they'd have grabbed it back and said, "I've got to go nah for me tea" and that would have been it.
Yet, despite my disdain for those who leave early - I totally understood why folks left early after that bloody farce of a goal v Newcastle the other night. You know when you've been watching (and playing) football all your life, you have certain expectations that things will happen a certain way. What I never expected is that a linesman can clearly flag for offside and everybody stops, except one player who, intent on time-wasting, casually rolls it into the net past a goalkeeper who makes only a half-hearted attempt to stop it. I've never seen that before. There wasn't one player, or supporter, in fact, not one person in that ground at that point in time who thought that was a legitimate goal. Not one.
The danger here is, if you allow that sort of intervention to completely change the way the game goes, then you disenfranchise a lot of people, because that's exactly not what they understood the game to be. It's almost like getting to the end of a game and saying, "the team with the most goals lose". It feels completely alien - it's not normal, it's not what any of us understood the game to be about. And when you don't understand something and feel completely disenfranchised by the way things have happened, then it's perfectly normal to be disillusioned with it, to the point of thinking, "bollocks to it" - and that's exactly what many fans felt after that. I do not blame them one bit.
We are entering a new era of football where "VAR is the Star" and the fans are lost in some distant galaxy wondering what the hell is happening?