I remember that episode and you left BU as a result. I tried to send a supportive e-mail, but I think you must have closed the account so I doubt you ever received it. It had a 68 in it (oof, right next to 69). Anyway, you're back and no harm done
Recently, you referred to the outing and you said it was "against (your) will", which implied you might have had some say in the matter. Is that what you meant, or was it untypically imprecise use of language on your part? Just curious.....
I didn't leave, I just stayed off the site for a while.
It was against my will in the sense that (obviously) the person doing it knew I would not have wanted him to do it. That's why he was anonymous.