Surely the reaction to your OP, from those critical of Wilder and those that are big fans (like myself), should tell you that you've got it wrong.
Multiple people have taken it as though you were calling out those critical of Wilder, and it is exactly how it reads. If you meant to do otherwise, you've got a bizarre way of showing it. I genuinely can't believe you're denying that was the intention. I've never seen the phrase "where are you now?" used in a context other than to call someone out.
I think football fans should be cultish towards their team, manager and players, most of the time. I chant his name at games and I'd buy him a pint if I saw him out. But putting that cultish behaviour within a decisive, petty OP just divides the two camps even further.
Have a good day n'all, especially tonight when we can hopefully grab another three points. UTB.