So because people disagree with you they're the ones who 'are seeing what they want to see'? It could be argued that those who are seeing the contact are seeing what they want to see.
There's no way, regardless of how much you slow it down, that you can use the video to prove definitively that there was or wasn't contact, unless you can really zoom in and look at it from different angles.
As I said, I couldn't care less anyway. I just don't like the idea that those with a different opinion are the ones who are lying to themselves.