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post: 434275, member: 875"]I agree with that, but I also think there should be an enclosure where swearing is not permitted just for the sake of our younger fans and their parents who don't want to take their kids home having learned new words at the match. He already knows the f-word thanks to someone's little darling who effs and Jeffs like a trooper at pre-school nursery, and I'd like to leave it at that.
Not wanting to have the thread digress too much, it's nice to see such a discussion here. In principal & theory, I concur entirely mate; but in reality, avoiding swearing etc.,no matter where we might be is like trying to avoid fresh air...
Of course, I also agree with your point - it'd be nice to see such an 'swear free enclosure' for those who might believe such steps are feasible, but just how would it be policed (not by bobbys I mean)? I'm not one for bad language and swearing myself, seriously, but even I am known to have an emotive outburst once in a blue moon, and would hope others around me would be willing to offer the benefit of the doubt on such occasions.
I think MetalBlade is pretty much bang on the head; IMHO realistically any parent who thinks they can effectively limit their kid(s) in picking up bad language (I'm included BTW) is really clutching at straws. They can and
will learn it - as you know from experience (and me too mate) - from pre-school nursery, and others such things as full time school, the pubs we frequent before/after the match, TV programming, movies, video games etc., etc. No matter how much we might try (for all the right reasons) it'd be futile to truly conclude we can successfully protect them from all this.
I remember at Wembley there was a young(ish) Dad and his son (about 8-10) behind me and I said something about us being s**t and the kid saying "that was a swear word". I apologised to the guy and told the kiddo I was 'naughty' but even the Dad said that it was understandable and he told his lad before that he'd hear 'swearing' at such a footie game. IMHO, common sense self-policing like this is probably the most realistic way that we, as parents, can succeed. I know it's not perfect, but we don't live in a prefect world and unfortunately, never will.
All the best mate, and in conclusion, sure, I'd say to try and get on John Street if you can, but after being on there (dotted about all over till recently) I can tell you that you still won't escape 100% any and all 'bad language', but it'd probably prove to be the 'better' place in the ground...
UTB!