Yes I'd hold them responsible not their mate. We're all just guessing what's going on anyway. Find out one way or the other very soon probably
Aye
But do you hold a senior position & (are required to) operate as the public face of a multi million pound business in an era where image & presentation are (deemed) fundamental for ‘success’. Like everything in the modern world tarnished appearance, reputation & perception (usually) lead to failure as such are not tolerated by a media (& populace) obsessed by the ‘optics’.
Gone are the days when ‘passionate straight talking northern grit’ are deemed a strength & (perverse) virtue. Such are only relevant when accompanied by ‘style’ even if the (actual substance was predicated upon such (affable?) appeal & ‘charm.
United (& Wilder) were (rightly) feted during his first incarnation where an identifiable style perfectly melded with the steely demeanour of the plucky local lad, fan, player pursuing his (impossible) dream for
his club- We appeared to be everyone’s ‘2nd favourite team’’ as the fairytale narrative was nurtured & perpetrated.
In hindsight , Wilder’s public sandwich rant was the beginning of the end giving a first indication to the nation that he was somewhat different to the fairytale narrative - scales were lifted from eyes and a more objective (insightful & accurate) analysis of Wilder, his team & his club started to emerge, and crucially be reported / commented upon. Just as we had been adopted, lauded, wrung out and discarded so new darlings emerge(d) or were created & so it goes.
Wilders personal failings became more apparent (or reported upon) & he wasn’t savvy enough aware enough informed enough or advised enough to stop (or slow down) the rot.That decline slowly brought us to today via abject performances, ugly style (sic) & Ill discipline (on & off the pitch)
Wilder can’t (won’t ?) reign in an ignorant yob even though he must know that such will inevitably be seen as a reflection upon himself, whether that is ‘fair’ or not.
If your (best) mate was (continually) ‘chatting shit’ in a manner that (likely) compromises your working relationship, (with no detriment to himself, indeed likely boosting an already over inflated ego by most accounts) when would you intervene?
Of course he should ‘have a word’
If he chooses not to do so I’d expect Wilder’s employer to seek to exert influence over the only person they have any leverage with (‘authority’ over)
I fear it’s all now irretrievable - It appears that if Wilder remains - ‘half ‘ the board are unhappy, if he goes (t’other) half of the board are unhappy