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Alreyt chaps. Just appealing to fellow Blades for a contribution.

In July 2009, my daughter, Amy, fell sick. At first they couldn't find out what was up with her and after a few checks, they found out it was Acute Myeloid Leukaemia. That was a bit of a shock for the 25 year old, moreso for her daughter, Francesca, who was then just 7 years old. Anyway, we got her admitted to hospital and she spent six months undergoing some pretty shitty chemotherapy. Six lots of it. In December of 2009, we found out this hadn't put her into remission so the game was for her to undergo ablative chemotherapy at Southampton General (which basically mallets your immune system) and then a Stem Cell Transplant (Bone Marrow Graft). In February 2010, the graft went in, courtesy of a brilliant, anonymous donor. Amy spent the next three months looking like she'd been hit by a Pickford's truck (literally) and emerged back in to the real world, half her weight and ravaged by the treatments. When you see this stuff on films and dcoumentaries, don't believe a word of it, because it is a living hell. We took care of Frankie during all of this and Amy came back as a daughter and monther gradually. She even found time for a holiday abroad.

While all this went on, my sister contracted breast cancer. After a brave fight, she died on October 15 2010, aged 55.

It all looked good for amy until August this year when she fell sick again and got the bad news that it was back, and because of the effect of the first treatment, any hope was lost.They gave her three weeks - she died on 20 October, aged 27.

We carried out her cremation yesterday. The funeral was attended by nearly 300 people.

I asked that everyone not donate flowers, but contribute whatever they could to a JustGiving website I'd set up. So far we have raised nearly four grand toward Cure Leukaemia. I feel we can't lose people to cancer, or leukaemia any more.

If you can contribute, fellow Bladesmen, please do. The link is http://www.JustGiving.com/Amy-Dougan.


Thanks all. UTB.

pommpey
 



Sorry to hear that Pommpey ,what with Billys nightmare stuation thats the 3rd bit of crapness I've heard this week.Puts things like the Long/Simmo situation in perspective ,remember people have other problems away from football and enjoy Utd for what its worth. Speaking of problems the sites down atm :)
 
So sad for your loss pommpey. The site's still down.

UTB
 
Thats terrible news. I watch Pancreatic Cancer take my Dad from being a fit, big and strong retired fireman to his death in the space of 2 months at the age of 54 a few years back, and it was a horrible feeling. I can't even imagine what it is like to see your daughter go through it, and to see this wicked, cruel disease take her life.

Very very sorry about your news Pommpey and i was choked up reading it.

Brownie
 
Pommpey, i am so devastated for you and all your family. My father was diagnosed with cancer 8 years ago and within 12 weeks was gone. As a father of 2 myself, i can only imagine the pain you're going through my friend.
Your post was incredibly respectful and dignified.
My deepest sympathy to you and yours.
I'll be sure to contribute.
 
Fellers - once again, well made up with your support, words and donations. It means so much.

Thanks again

UTB


pommpey
 
Mate very very sorry for your losses ,gutted for you and your family, I lost my father to prostate cancer, got it myself but touch wood got rid of it.
Tears in my eyes for you be brave x
 
Vic, you may remember me as Hanging On To Harry - remember the gig you did at The Grapes the night my youngest was born, 8 years ago last week? She still has the Blades babygro you bought for her.

I'm thinking of you mate, devastating news. Take good care.
 



Hi Pommpey,

Heart felt condolences from all in Cave, I watched my Wife fight a losing battle against the most horrendous facial cancer so completely understand the devastation you must be feeling. I also appreciate how you want to do something in your daughters memory to help find a cure, when Sarah died I did something similar and the support I got from complete strangers off the old message board was outstanding and overwhelming.

All the very best you are in our thoughts.

PS Thank you for Blades Supreme, I still have it on my ipod and it makes the hairs on my neck stand up every time I listen to it.
 
Again, chaps, thanks for the kindness.

Nick - great gig at the Grapes that night. I've only just shut the harddrive project down for good because of what has happened, BTW. And Cave, my sympathy and condolences, Your journey must have been horrendous mate.

UTB to all

pommpey
 
Pommpey, I'm so sorry about your loss. Its tragic. I've lost family and friends but I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a child. Stay strong.

Dunc and family.
 
http://www.justgiving.com/Amy-Dougan

Thanks everyone.

UTB

pommpey

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Amy with me, my lad and some goalkeeper when we had some goalkeepers!
 
pommpey
I go along with all the comments that have been made above. We have missed you on the unitedite site too! I have taken the liberty of writing a "personal message" to you on that site, it is the one I use most. With every good wish and sympathy
 
Really sorry Pommpey...lost both parents to the vile disease but the loss of one of your kids? it can't compare.....

Stay strong matey.
 

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