How it feels you have to be either far left or far right(not sure who is who) when it comes to departed staff and players:
I.e. Wilder - We have the...
"He's gone, move on it should never be mentioned under this roof again - Our fans are obssessed" We need to sit in silence and forget he was ever a part of our lives like a troublesome, drunk ex who kicked off at family parties. The good times were good, the bad were bad and you just never want to go there or think about it again(Not talking from experience....)
or the
"He's gone, I hate it all, I want to destroy Selles and every little part of him until the club moves back" i.e. the obsessed.... Which are infuriating me more. The ex you loved and worshipped and will never be able to look at someone in the same way again.
It's almost like you are not allowed the opinion of....
"He's gone, i'm gutted and feel it's a bit harsh, but the board have made the decision and I will accept it and move on because I support the club. However, I do still have an interest in Wilder and his potential future career, especially if he is linked with clubs who will be in and around us in the table - It's going to be interesting and one which may time to time spring conversation". It was fun whilst it lasted but but it was never a long term thing, just a bit of hanky panky.