I thought I'd let the air clear for a bit before I waded in on this one.
I went on Saturday, and thought we were in with a shout, especially when we all thought we were 2-0 up. I don't blame the use of VAR, even though I can't stand the thing, if it's disallowed, it's disallowed. I thought that Sunderland were no great shakes, but they were determined and had a plan which they stuck to, even after going behind. After a reasonably positive start to the second half, the team just crawled inside itself and went into a very familiar defensive pattern. We did have clear chances, but they were either missed, or we just ploughed on with trying to defend deep. This failed very recently against Plymouth, Millwall and Oxford, so it's chances of working against a better side than any of them, with a huge prize at the end, wasn't likely to succeed. When Sunderland scored, I knew what was going to happen, as we've seen it so many times. And it happened.
After initially thinking that this wasn't on the manager, it was about Moore's fuck up, I now think it really is on Wilder. He picked the team and the tactics, he made the substitutions, he decided to play JLT, and not let Holding anywhere near the field of play, and he stuck to "sitting in", when there's clear evidence over a number of games, that his team aren't actually very good at "sitting in".
We were playing a team who finished a full 16 points (including the deduction) behind us, who before just beating Coventry had been on an awful run, and who are young and relatively inexperienced. There are no guarantees, but with the start we had, we should have won this game. In my view, not doing so is entirely the responsibility of Wilder and his management team. As was the bizarre end to the regular season, and as is the turgid football served up for so much of this season. For these footballing reasons, Wilder should go, and the board should aim for some sort of reset. I don't know who, I'm a fan, that's not my job.
In terms of Wilder's behaviour and conduct as a manager and representative of SUFC, I think it's fair to say that he should have acknowledged the fans, and he should have been there for the players. That's his job, that's what goes with being a manager and leader. If he can't do this (and clearly he couldn't on Saturday), then he's not up to the job, and should be replaced by someone who is perhaps a bit less self-centered.