You're absolutely spot on.
For me it was about earning as much as I could to feed the family, pay the mortgage, do the best for the kids that I could, have an annual holiday and watch the footy.
By the time I got to 48 the kids had left school, I hated the job, I hated living in Maidenhead and my priorities changed.
I chucked in my job, sold up and moved to Yorkshire with enough cash to buy a nice but much smaller house and started looking for a job when I got here.
Because I had no mortgage I could afford to get a job on the post paying about 20% of my previous earnings, but I absolutely loved it and did it for 12 yrs until an ankle fusion meant I was unable to carry on, at which point I retired thanks to the pensions from my previous life.
I now have a better life than I could ever have dreamed of as a council estate kid but the key to it was maximising my income potential at a young age and then having the scope to make lifestyle decisions in later life.
Lundstram would be daft to sign a contract with us IF he can earn substantially more elsewhere, whether he would play there or not because let's face it, he's not exactly guaranteed a place in our team at the moment.
All this talk about playing games is sentimental bollocks, like every footballer he needs to maximise his earnings whilst he can.
It's a short career, it could end tomorrow, and memories and medals don't pay the bills.