Agree with your first statement - even in the fantastic season we've just had, anything other than 3 points causes some folks on here to start having a pop and criticising him. It's going to be really interesting next season when we go on a little winless run - which I'm sure we will. I'm bracing myself for..."the job's too big for Wilder" and "he's taken us as far as he can" and "he's a good manager in the Championship and lower leagues, but not the Prem". Oh yes, we will see ALL of these criticisms and more next season - you can guarantee it.
I don't agree with your last statement though: "he's still learning his trade". Still learning his trade? Show me another manager in the football league that has more experience of managing football teams than Wilder? He's done it from pub league, through non-league and professional league, all the way to the Premiership. Possibly what you meant to say was that, at 51, he's still got many years of football management ahead of him - now that I'd agree with.
I'd like to see us stick with a management team for several years. It used to be the case back in the 1970's when I first started watching football. Some of the managers back then were with clubs for donkey's years. Like John Lyall at West Ham, Bill Nicholson at Spurs, Bertie Mee at Arsenal, Bill Shankly at Liverpool, Matt Busby at Man United, it didn't do these clubs any harm to stick with a manager for a good period of time. It's really only in recent years that it seems to have become a good idea to cull managers after just a few weeks in the job.
Football managers are like partners. If you've got a good one, bloody well appreciate it and look after them!