Just go and watch the videos on SheffieldUTube.
You can already see how Wilder's face and general demeanour has dropped. He realises what he has walked into.
It's fucked, people. IT'S FUCKED.
Demeanour yes. Fucked no.
However, it is like he was on the dating scene after a marriage break up. He remembered the fit girl from school who everyone fancied, who stole his heart, but who he couldn't ever get off with. They drifted their own ways but he never lost that first lust.
Suddenly, he finds her on some love club, remembers that early desire and makes contact over internet. She promises much, he remembers much and these mask the reality.
Before he knows it they are an item and then he realises the world has moved on, things have changed, the teenage connections aren't the same. She's blootered out a bit, her awful controlling mother is still there in the background, she's not as mobile, keen and agile as she once was. He realises she has been around the block a bit, been taken advantage of by some and been hanging around with the wrong crowd. There has even been some bother with the law...
All of a sudden during the honeymoon period he thinks what has he done and realises the work involved to make this relationship work, especially with the mother in law and her new exotic foreign fella watching every move. He looks downbeat, maybe turns to the ale a little too much and needs to remember he can actually make it work.
So Chris over to you. Gonna make it work? For my money there ain't anyone better on what we offer.. Good luck mate!