The play-offs one is probably just about fair. But the cup semi finals is a bit harsh. They are semi-finals for a reason - we were up against very tough opposition.
FA Cup
1993: Lost to Wednesday, who finished 7th in the top flight (we finished 14th in the top flight)
1998: Lost to Newcastle, who finished 13th in the top flight (we finished 6th in the second flight)
2003: Lost to Arsenal, who finished 2nd in the top flight (we finished 3rd in the second flight)
2014: Lost to Hull, who finished 16th in the top flight (we finished 7th in the third flight)
2023: Lost to Man City, who finished 1st in the top flight (we finished 2nd in the second flight)
League Cup
2003: Lost to Liverpool, who finished 5th in the top flight (we finished 3rd in the second flight)
2015: Lost to Spurs, who finished 5th in the top flight (we finished 5th in the third flight)
It's a bit harsh to call any of those 'fuck ups'. All against top flight teams when we were in lower divisions (apart from 1993).
Also important to remember that we turned up in the quarter-final matches to get to those semis, so we can win 'big' one-off games.
There's also the FA cup semi final + reply against Leicester in 1961.
(we finished 2nd in the 2nd division but Leicester were the favourites finishing 6th in the top flight).
So that's a run of 7 (SEVEN) consecutive fa cup semi finals we've failed to win.
Regards the recent FA cup semi finals I really thought 2003 was going to be our year to qualify for Europe.
The 4 teams in the semis were Arsenal, Watford, Southampton and Sheff Utd.
Arsenal were easily the best team finishing 2nd in the top flight, Southampton finished 8th in the top flight
We finished 3rd in the Championship and Watford were the weakest team finishing 13th in the Championship.
Remember at the time, the winners of the FA cup automatically qualified for Europe
but if that team (for example Arenal) had already qualified into Europe, then the loser in the final played in Europe instead.
Thought if we draw Watford then we are almost gauranteed a cup final and we we met Arsenal in the final, even if we lost we'd still qualify for Europe.
I even fancied our chances if we'd drawn Southampton in the semi's.
but incredible bad luck, 1 in 3 chance, and we draw the big favourites to win the competition.
Still gave them a great game in the semi final at Old Trafford, not many chances but they scored that controversial goal where the ref blocked our player.
Then right at the end Seaman did that unbelievable save (Seaman says it's his best ever save) from Pescisolido header.